Family

Family

my favorite things

  • Alaska's mountains
  • Attending the Temple
  • Beau when he's watching a funny movie
  • Child logic
  • Children Laughing
  • Christmas Morning
  • Eternal Perspective
  • Family
  • Finding the perfect shoes
  • Girls Night
  • Going for walks
  • Hanging out with friends
  • Learning new things
  • Mary Kay
  • My Kids
  • Our Dogs
  • Pictures of my kids
  • Playing my Guitar
  • Red leaves
  • Snow on Christmas Eve
  • Texas
  • The gulf of Mexico, Florida coast
  • The harvest moon
  • The Hunger Games
  • Watching old people with thier spouses

Friday, August 14, 2015

Isaac

October 2013 we decided our family wasn't complete, we were supposed to have one more. However this is not something we decided over night. I have been praying about it for 4 years! For 4 years, I was told not yet, wait for Beau, and it's almost time. Beau was set on not having anymore and usually wouldn't discuss it with me at all. So when I started getting a yes it's time I stopped praying about when we should have a baby and started praying that Beau would be open to the idea because I was on board. Some people wonder why I would want more, I say why not? Some people wondered how I could handle 2 kids with special needs and a baby and I said, yes I can. So yes our baby was planned, and prayed for. We conceived quickly, I have been blessed in that aspect of having children. I had terrible morning sickness and was later diagnosed with early onset gestational diabetes. I was warned my baby was gearing up to be really big, like over 9 lbs big. I bought all 0-3 months clothes for my big boy. At 32 weeks while Beau was out of town, my water broke. I had just tucked kids into bed,finished sewing a baby bag, and was in the bathroom when my water started leaking. At first I thought I was being paranoid, but soon it was gushing and there was no mistaking it. I called a friend, her husband was out of town,I called a second friend, she was out of town. But within a few minutes I had ladies at my door to take me to the hospital and another on her way to stay with my kids. Beau changed his flight home for the next morning. I prayed for several things. First that Beau would make it home in time, and second that the baby would be ok. After 2 days of not being allowed to sit up and having to lay in the same position they did a C-Section and delivered Isaac. I would not wish that on anyone. It was the worst thing I have ever gone through. Isaac came out screaming and was rushed to the NICU. He stayed there for 3 weeks and was discharged quickly considering how early he was. Since then, almost a year later he has grown and developed normally. I decided to nurse him and started pumping. About 2 weeks before his due date I began to try and nurse instead or pump, it took a week but we got it! He overcame a tongue tie, 2 bouts of thrush and several clogged milk ducts. I wanted to give up several times but my husband encouraged me and a wonderful friend who is also a lactation consultant helped me and I am thankful they did. After bringing him home he wouldn't let me set him down for longer than a few minutes, it was a long 4 months. He hit all of his milestones on time for his adjusted age and about a month late for his actual age.He is now a well adjusted almost 1 year old. Time flies.

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